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"Creating Your BE-Print: Drafting Your Personal Blueprint for Living"

A Proven Framework Created by Shelley A.W. Roy and Glenn M. Smith
“Just as an architect needs a blueprint to create the structure they really want to see, a person needs a BE-Print to become the person they really want to be.”
Most people are trapped in a frustrating cycle, and it stems from two core problems: they lack the design of the life they actually want, and they have no clear criteria to evaluate themselves. Without your own internal compass, you are left at the mercy of the outside world. You naturally fall into the trap of judging others, obsessing over how others judge you, and are left with feeling like a victim of your circumstances.

The BE-Print transforms everything. It instantly shifts the spotlight off the world and back onto you—empowering you to define exactly who you want to be in any given situation.

What Makes This Different?

Unlike traditional self-help books that offer rigid rules or temporary band-aids for specific problems, "Creating Your BE-Print" gives you a universal operating system for life.
  • Grounded in Science: Built on a rock-solid foundation of Perceptual Control Theory (PCT) and the latest research in human behavior, learning, leadership, and organizational development.
  • No Looking Back, Just Forward Motion: This isn't about dissecting your yesterday. It’s about looking deep within yourself today so you can navigate the unpredictability of tomorrow with absolute confidence.
  • Master the #1 Life Skill: Through this book, you will unlock the single most critical skill a human being can possess: intentional self-evaluation.
Stop trying to manage external circumstances you can't control. It’s time to control how you show up. "Creating Your BE-Print" doesn't just help you solve a problem—it helps you become the best version of yourself in every situation.

What People Are Saying About the BE-Print Framework

The BE-Print isn't just a theory—it is a proven framework that has helped individuals navigate the unpredictability of life, lower their stress, and build lasting inner strength. Here is how mastering this framework has transformed lives across completely different paths:
From Stress to Absolute Clarity
"Glenn and Shelley did not provide rules to follow or strategies that apply in a limited number of situations... Instead, they helped me become the best me I can be in EVERY situation. I am more grounded and experience much less stress in difficult situations ."
— Kim Berg, Sr. Executive Sales, Walking Billboards
A Scientifically Backed Framework
"Perceptual Control Theory encourages individuals to create a strong sense of self... The BE-Print is a wonderful way to capture the essence of who an individual is, as well as who they want to be ."
— Leah Berne, Jungian Analyst
From Rock Bottom to Rebuilding
"I created my first BE-Print while incarcerated. It provided a framework for how I would spend my time in jail—reading over 400 books and earning an associate's degree... More importantly, my BE-Print laid the foundation for who I wanted to be once I got out, and reminds me every day of the person I want to be ."
— K.D. Hardy, Former Inmate, Motivational Speaker, and Author
Ready to "Test the Waters"?

Experience the BE-Print Workshop

This workshop is designed to help participants gain deeper self-awareness, emotional clarity, and intentional direction in their lives. Through evidence-based principles and guided reflection, participants will leave with their personal BE-Print—a framework for living with purpose, balance, and authenticity.
Why Join the Workshop?
  • From Map to Masterprint: Reading the book gives you the framework, but this interactive workshop is where you actually build your customized blueprint.
  • Master the #1 Life Skill: Learn to move past external distractions and master the vital art of intentional self-evaluation.
  • Stop Reacting, Start Acting: Shift the script on external stress, stop worrying about how others judge you, and regain total control over how you show up in any given situation.
What We Focus On
  • Evidence-Based Principles: Grounded in Perceptual Control Theory (PCT), this experience uses science-backed methods to spark deep self-awareness and emotional clarity.
  • Forward-Looking Reflection: We won't waste time digging into your past; instead, we focus entirely on this moment forward to help you navigate life's unpredictability.
  • Holistic Self-Discovery: Dig deep within yourself to intentionally define the professional, manager, partner, and friend you want to be.
What You Will Leave With
  • Your Completed BE-Print: Walk away with your own tangible, personalized framework for living with purpose, balance, and authenticity.
  • Universal Application: Gain a permanent internal operating system that helps you be your best self in every situation, not just a select few.
  • True Groundedness: Leave with the tools to experience significantly less stress, deeper clarity, and intentional direction for the future.

Meet the Authors & Workshop Facilitators Behind the BE-Print

The BE-Print framework was co-created by Shelley A.W. Roy and Glenn M. Smith. As the authors of the book and the facilitators of the workshop, they bring decades of international experience in behavioral science, organizational leadership, and personal coaching to guide you through your transformation.

Shelley A.W. Roy

CEO of BE-Print for Living, Inc.
Shelley is a recognized leader in human resource development who has worked with thousands of adults across a wide range of learning environments. With over a decade of experience facilitating more than seventy improvement teams and multi-agency collaboratives, her teaching career spans from K-12 systems to universities globally and domestically—including West Berlin, Germany; the Navajo Reservation; Kansas; Nebraska; Minnesota; and North Carolina.

As an international speaker, consultant, and author of multiple books on living systems and education , Shelley brings the latest insights in leadership, communication, brain-compatible instruction, and change management directly to her workshops. She is also the president of Synergy Transition Consulting and Five Crows Publishing, and a founding senior faculty member of the International Association for Applied Control Theory.
A Glimpse Into Shelley’s Personal BE-Print:
"My mission is to model compassion and caring towards all living and non-living things. To help others recognize the gifts they have to offer and encourage them to give these gifts to the world. To be a passionate teacher who helps individuals take their next step in learning."

Shelley A.W. Roy

President of BE-Print for Living, Inc.
Glenn has dedicated his career to human behavior and development since 1973, when he founded the first community-based group home for youth in West Virginia. Following graduate studies at Cornell University , Glenn studied under William Glasser at the Institute for Reality Therapy, becoming a faculty member in 1987.

His work later aligned with William Powers, the founder of Perceptual Control Theory (PCT)—the scientific model explaining living systems that forms the bedrock of the BE-Print framework. In 1998, Glenn co-developed the International Association of Applied Control Theory, where he serves as Senior Faculty. A gifted counselor, life coach, and strategist, Glenn has provided international training and organizational consulting to educators, business managers, and counselors alike. He is also the founder and CEO of Life Connections of the Carolinas, Inc., a 501c3 nonprofit organization whose mission is to “Keep Kids Out of Jail and Keep Families Connected.”
A Glimpse Into Glenn’s Personal BE-Print:
"I believe that relationships are life's grandest opportunity to discover who you really are. When I am with another person I can self-evaluate who I am and who I am not. Relationships also give me the opportunity to learn and to grow, to challenge my beliefs, my view of myself, and my view of the world."
Keeping Kids Out of Jail and Keeping Families Connected
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